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Common Law Marriage In Colorado


Colorado Family Law MarriageA common law marriage in Colorado is a specific arrangement the law recognizes and sanctions, but does not officially recognize (such as by the issuance of a marriage certificate). A legal common law marriage confers all the advantages and responsibilities of a formal marriage.

For more than 100 years, Colorado has accepted common law marriages. In fact, Colorado is is one of very few states that permit it’s residents to form this type of union. If two people reside together as a married couple and hold themselves out to the public as married, a Colorado common law marriage can be created in the eyes of the state.


Many people wrongly believe that just living together for a certain duration of time can constitutes a common law marriage. This assumption is incorrect, there is no time factor that dictates the validity of a Colorado common law marriage.

Simply put, for an unimpeachable common law marriage to be legal in Colorado, the spouses must present themselves to the public just like a traditionally married couple, and the simple requirements below are met:

  • Both partners must be at least 18 years of age.
  • The marriage must not be banned under any other state statute such as Incest or Bigamy.
  • The other exception is if one partner is still legally married to another person. But in Colorado, even though one partner is still technically married to another person, the common law partner in a divorce would be viewed by the court as “putative spouse.” This protects common law partners who formed a union with a partner that withheld that information from them. In this scenario, putative partners have the same privileges as the legal spouses, including alimony, liquid assets, and land.


No, for that you would have to get married using the conventional practice. But many common law marriage couples choose to submit an affidavit to the state detailing your marriage status as a way of documenting the event. The affidavit form specifies your genders, the absence of any impediments to your marriage, and the fact that you are in fact married.

These unions are recognized as being legal and binding under the laws of Colorado, but don’t have the same legal recognition in other states that do not recognize common law marriages.


If for any reason the validity of a common law marriage is challenged in Colorado, the couple can prove a common law marriage in a variety of ways, including:

  • Filing joint state and federal tax returns.
  • Opening a joint checking or savings account.
  • Both partners are listed on a mortgage.
  • Both partners are listed on a lease.
  • One partner takes the surname of the other.
  • In public conversations, the couple openly refers to their union as a marriage.


If you and your common law spouse move from Colorado to a state that does not recognize common law marriages, your valid common law marriage is still valid under the U.S. Constitution’s “Full Faith and Credit” clause that requires states to recognize legal marriages in other states.

Our office fields many questions about common law marriages in Colorado each month. If you have a questions about issues pertaining to Colorado common law marriages, feel free to contact our office for a complementary consultation from our leading Colorado Springs family lawyer Michael T. Allen.

Who Suffers Most In A Divorce

Who Suffers Most In Divorce?

How Colorado Springs Divorce Affects FamiliesA divorce is possibly the hardest thing a family unit can go through.  The pain and suffering of leaving someone that you previously shared your life with can be devastating.  And unfortunately, the couple’s entire family are often affected by the pain and suffering associated with losing a family member.

The American family unit is crucial to the integrity of our society, and the consequences of high divorce rates can directly affect our prosperity as a nation.  Colorado Springs has recorded an increasing number of divorces in recent times and the consequences are apparent in Colorado culture, history, and schools. That being said, often the only way for a couple with a volatile relationship to find peace is to dissolve their marriage.

Men and Divorce

Research indicates that men often dig their heels in and attempt to avoid divorce to the best of their ability.  And when divorce does occur, they often take much longer than women to come to grips with their new marital reality.

It is not uncommon for men to become withdrawn from their previous social patterns.  A divorce also significantly increases a man’s chances of developing negative habits like heavy drinking.

Women and Divorce

Statistics show that while women initiate divorce almost twice the rate that men do, women are also much more likely to greatly struggle financially after divorce.  This is particularly true if children are involved. Often, the personal growth found by dissolving a toxic relationship is replaced with the crushing financial and emotional struggle of being a suddenly single parent.  However, women tend to be much more adaptable to change during stressful times and often have a much more extensive divorce support group than men.

Children and Divorce

Children and young adults often face the greatest emotional and physical problems during and after their parents divorce.  Children often are subjected to the verbal and sometimes physical fighting of their parents prior to, and during a divorce.  This exposure can directly lead to issues with a child’s emotional and physical growth.

Clinical studies imply critical components determining how well a child fares after a divorce include:

  • The frequency with which a child’s parent argue.
  • How long the arguments last.
  • How intense the arguments are.
  • How each parent interacts with the child following such arguments.
  • The overall relationship of both parents with the child.

Divorce Effects Summary

Divorce almost always has significant and often severe emotional and physical consequences for every person involved.  If you are contemplating divorcing your spouse, in addition to seeking counsel from a professional divorce lawyers, it is recommended that you consider visiting with a mental health expert who specializes in helping people cope with the emotional stresses involved with a divorce.

Contact Colorado Springs Family Law Attorney Mike Allen for a free consultation on Colorado family law issues including:

  • Divorce
  • Legal Separation
  • Child Custody
  • Alimony Spousal Support
  • Child support
  • Property Division
  • Grandparent’s Rights 
  • Parenting Time
  • Visitation Rights